I read this book 2 years ago and have since bought copies of it for six women I love, including my mother, sister and girlfriends, which sets a personal record that I doubt will be broken by another book.
The results were dramatic: I now feel like I have my pick of the litter with a slew of fabulous guys who all clamor for my attention.’ Why I wrote this book: When I was an advisor at Harvard, I noticed that smart women like yourself were having unfulfilling love lives on an epidemic scale. Partially because I'm not your grandma, and partially because the 21st century poses unprecedented challenges to the modern woman. Well, 5000 or so letters I've received from women readers on their dating woes can all be boiled down to this: ‘Does my butt look good in these pants? Focus on this question instead: ‘How can I make the people around me feel like a million bucks?What readers say: ‘The content is intelligent and compassionate and enriching far beyond anything to do with dating.Do you see scarcity, lack and limitation around you, or wealth, possibility and abundance?The mindset you choose bears directly upon the success of your love life (and your success in general). "all the good ones are taken" - begets neediness, and neediness is not attractive.