When the attraction is mutual and a dating relationship develops, there are some guidelines that should be followed in order to keep the original friendship intact.
Here are ten tips to avoid issues when you’re dating your friend’s sister:1.
You’re likely familiar with your best friend’s good points and his flaws.
Do you think he’d be uncomfortable or angry with you if you date his sister? Remember — this is the guy that you’ve been bouncing off dating questions for years, as well as the only other person on Earth who knows anything about your sex life, besides the girls that were involved.
The main issue is I just have this primal response of UGHGHG NOOOOOOO which doesn’t feel totally logical when it happens, but here’s what I think it’s about:1.
I talk to both of them constantly, all the time, about everything.
My best friend just started dating a wonderful guy.
They have a great rapport, have been spending a lot of time together, and the best part is, I already know him incredibly well…he’s my brother. My friend doesn’t have the best track record with men.
Kind of related, but in the worst part of myself, I’m sure I’m jealous they’ve found love.2. It doesn’t to them because when my friend and I were living at our parents’ houses and hanging out with each others’ families, I always went to her house. But she is someone who I would describe as being “like a sister to me” so it is so gross that she is dating my actual sister.3.Normally we would talk constantly about sex and love and dating, and now… Firstly, I have this super negative primal response, so I told them from the beginning I did not want to be involved, but phrased it more diplomatically as like, “It puts me in a weird position,” which is also very true.You know how annoying people are when they first start dating someone they really like and want to gush about them and how amazing they are and they don’t actually really know each other that well yet, so they fill in any blanks with more amazingness?Keep your friendship intact by following these guidelines to dating your friend's sister.It’s not uncommon for guys to become attracted to sisters of their friends.